elizabeth kershaw

Founder of Journee. Digital Nomad. Personal Development Girlie.

Why I'm quitting "quitting alcohol"

For the last two years I’ve completely cut out alcohol. But my health actually IMPROVED when I allowed myself a drink or two.

I've never been a big drinker, in fact, I usually bang on about how much I love "being boring".

But when I got serious about my health and fitness in 2022, cutting out extra sugar from the odd Friday-night cocktail seemed like the logical next step.And it worked!

πŸ’ͺ🏼 I was smashing my health goals

πŸ’• I got involved in alcohol-free activities.

✨ Prioritised other 'natural' dopamine, like sports and art activities.

But after a while - my focus on health meant having even one drink felt like undoing all my goals. Talk about putting pressure on yourself! 😧

β†’ I became fuelled by all-or-nothing thinking.

β†’ I'd let the fact that β€œI don't drink” become my personality.

β†’ Not drinking was more of a safety blanket than an active choice.

And looking back, I may have had a better time if I'd have allowed myself a cocktail or two!

Then it hit me: Not drinking was actually becoming unhealthy.

I promise you that is exactly how everyone else got there.

My biggest wakeup call was that I didn't want my time in Asia to be defined by early nights in!

πŸ”΄ Rigid rules fuel unhealthy behaviours.

🟠 The real health lies in balance and intentionality.

βœ… Sometimes, letting loose is exactly what you need.

Health isn't just about protein smoothies and 5 AM workouts. (Although I love those too!)

✨It's about experiences, connections, and yes, sometimes staying out past your bedtime.✨